I wasn’t having so much fun with my foster kids and felt like I was always fighting with them. I liked the times when I felt in sync with them, but those times didn’t happen very often, and I didn’t know how to create those experiences. I certainly didn’t know how to make that the norm! 

So, I started out on a quest to figure this all out and in the end it not only helped me have harmony with my kids but it transformed my life and my marriage. This book is the culmination of that journey!

Check it out and if you really dig it, you can watch four free lessons from the “My Kids Community” which is guiding foster and adoptive parents to transform their home and their lives. See you on the inside!
I wasn’t having so much fun with my foster kids and felt like I was always fighting with them. I liked the times when I felt in sync with them, but those times didn’t happen very often, and I didn’t know how to create those experiences. I certainly didn’t know how to make that the norm! 

So, I started out on a quest to figure this all out and in the end it not only helped me have harmony with my kids but it transformed my life and my marriage. This book is the culmination of that journey!

Check it out and if you really dig it, you can watch four free lessons from the “My Kids Community” which is guiding foster and adoptive parents to transform their home and their lives. See you on the inside!
You shouldn't have to become a psychologist to help your hurt kids.
Join a community of Christian parents of hurt children who are learning new parenting paradigms that are transforming their families and helping them THRIVE.
You shouldn't have to become a psychologist to help your hurt kids.
Join a community of Christian parents of hurt children who are learning new parenting paradigms that are transforming their families and helping them THRIVE.
My Name is Steve Luther and I get it... you want to be able to take your kids with you and leave the anxiety at home. I understand because my wife and I have thirteen kids, nine of whom came through the foster care system. I’ve developed this program based on my twenty years of personal and professional experience with foster and adopted children and the families who are called to love them. 
We are 
Different
Because all the well meaning advice you have gotten just doesn’t work. 😉  
Biblically
 Based
God offers real change and calls us to thrive. We take that literally!
Empowerment Parenting
Because “the system” doesn’t have the answer and neither do cookie cutter Christian parenting methods.  
Heal past traumas
Our brain based approaches help you get into where your child is hurting and invite them to come out.
Take these four steps to create real change in your family.
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Click the "Join The Community" button and take the first step to restoring peace in your home.
Watch Videos
Watch the 10 module foundational course to empower you and free you from the chaos. Then stay active and watch the additional training materials which are added regularly for ongoing growth.
Get Involved
Join our members only Facebook group, attend regular live webinars and connect with others on a similar journey.
Thrive
Don’t stay stuck! I’ve done this in my family and I can guide you step by step through the process of thriving as a family. No child and no family is too far gone. There is always hope in God. Let me show you!
What are people saying?
"What a difference it has made for our whole family. Frankly, it has helped us across the board in our marriage, friendships, family relationships, and professional relationships. "
"The strategies and encouragement have been exactly what my husband and I needed."